It is no news that first impressions matters, especially on the first date. You have done the most onerous part of it, which is asking her out with you, on a date. No right thinking man will ever want his efforts to be in futility. To avoid wasting you precious time and effort without result these steps has been put in place for you, towards a successful date.
1. Appear neat:
Everybody likes cleanliness not women in isolation, if the lady you want to date is unkempt, you would not have asked her out in the first place. So the possibility of you loosing the lady will also increase when your appearance is not neat, make sure that you present yourself clean on the first date. No matter you job or occupation, try as much as you can to appear neat and sweet. You perfume should lightly scented. Do not think that doubling the scent of your perfume will double the attraction, Wrong. A couple of sprays one on your neck and one on your chest then put on your shirt. This way your scent is mild and she will be close enough to smell it without being overpowered.
2. Get ready for some conversation:
Since you’re going out to meet someone new, you must have something in your mind to discuss. Know the clever ways to approach the standard questions to answer about your job, family, personal life, like and dislike etc. It will be helpful if you can inject a little mystery and humour in your conversations. Do not cut in when she is speaking; listen attentively by giving little nods and occasionally paraphrasing and asking questions-relevant questions.
3. Be time conscious:
It will do you much good than harm to be punctual. It's better to arrive early to give yourself time to have a short strolling around; this will help you ease up yourself. Rather than to be late and tensed up. On her side she will not be happy because you don’t value her time. You will also have to apologize instead of being happy to meet her once again.
4. Be polite to the waiter/ waitress.
Treat the waiter/waitress with utmost respect they deserve. Do not scold or yell at them no matter their mistakes, be a gentleman. Make sure you pick up the bill and tip accurately. Never use a discount voucher! If she's not worth paying full price for, then you shouldn't be on a date with her in the first place.
5. Maintain eye contact.
You must maintain eye contact with her; you can start by looking at the left eye, then the right eye and the nose in an angular form. If she is wearing a low cut top or a necklace that dangles over her chest, now, it's important that your eyes do not go wandering. Get caught staring at her cleavage and she will think you only care about getting her in the sack.
6. Give her compliments.
Be as sincere as possible. Most guys can only compliment a woman on her looks you could tell her how cute her laugh is, how passionate she is about her hobbies, life, job or her hair style. This also shows her that you pay attention and often gives you a conversation starter.
Monday, November 23, 2009
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