Attracting the attention of that beautiful, pretty or lovely lady for marriage is the wish of every Young man. But it is only few can do just this without much problem. Everybody admires and wishes good things, but only few people get their wishes. Have you ever taking time to ask yourself why don’t I get what I wish? Then believe me you don’t get what you want because you don’t do what you are expected to do, simple. Then follow these tips and believe in yourself, because you can’t change yourself and that beautiful girl you’ve being dreaming of is yours.
1- Look Neat, Cute And Smart: Always dress neat and look cute in your outfit. Your clothing, hair, teeth, in fact every part of your body should get attention it requires frequently. You can’t attract the attention of your fellow man when you look tattered, dressed in unusual way or look unkempt. Neatness is next to Godliness, neatness also guarantees respect.
2- Treat People Around You With Utmost Respect: Be careful when dealing with people you come across on daily basis, since you don’t know who may be observing you. This is because a lady’s first impression about you may be bad and you can find it very difficult to convince such a lady to believe in you. Ladies love someone that is soft, caring and sympathetic. Ladies are weaker than men, so they need somebody that is soft, not somebody that will flay up upon little provocation. No lady will like to marry a man that will be giving her the beating of her life.
3- Be Caring, Loving And Humorous: Love the lady in question, never cease telling her how much you love her. Of course you have to also show her you love her and one of the best ways to love is by giving. You should also be caring, let her know that her happiness is your concern. Take her out for shopping, to the parks, cinema, live shows and other numerous places to have fun together. Show much interest in affairs that she is involved, in a way to make her feel better and safe whenever she is with you. Lastly, be a funny, crack joke that is matured not just dry jokes.
4- Share Your Future With Her: Let her know what your plans for tomorrow are like; get her involved, if you can. This will help in given her that sense that she truly belongs to you. You should also know that ladies are synonymous with doubt, by making her part of the plans; she will not doubt you much.
5- Be Good To Her Friends In The Way You Can: Carry some of her friends that believe in you along. Crack jokes and visit them together, but never let them know how far you have gone with the lady; unless if both of you or you are sure that no third party can harm your relationship. Her friends should not know about your future, handle it with utmost secrecy.
6- Don’t Keep Double Relationship At This Time: You don’t need any game, flirting or any of the like things, as you can call it. All you need is concentration on what you need from the lady and never allow your mouth to keep shut, keep telling her what you want. No amount of times you will tell her what you need from her that is too much. You should not even let her know about your past affairs, as that can do you more harm than good.
7- Make Her Your Closest Friend At This Time: This will help you in numerous ways; it will help you know how she responds to your advances. It will again help you keep watch on her, to know if she loves someone else. It will also let her know that you are serious and that you also care about her. It will also help both of you to know each other very well.
8- Never Even Talk About Sex, Until You’ve Known Her Opinion: Your discussions about sex and or romance should be with high degree of care, until you have known her view about it. It will do you more harm than good if she gets bored talking of sex and you have great passion about it. Don’t also persuade her into sex with you, get her for yourself first and every other thing shall be added unto you.