The tips revealed are like rules governing the game of marriage. You must play according to the rules to achieve the desired aim. Marriage has been in existence as old as the earth itself. Because marriage is highly competitive it has to be planned with utmost care. ‘‘Another man’s food is another man’s poison’’ is widely acceptable, but the question now is why are beautiful, pretty and intelligent ladies left unmarried for the rest of their life? This calls for sober reflection. These tips are no magic, though as long as you believe and work in accordance with these tips; it will unchain you from the shackles of husbandlessness. These tips are for ladies who are determined to have a husband, either now or in the near future. The tips are as follows:
1- Look Neat And Good Always: How neat are you? As a lady neatness should be your watchword. It costs nothing to be neat. Your hair, clothes (both the top and the under ones), teeth and nails for instance, should be properly and frequently taken care of. It is not attracting to behold a lady with unkempt hair, clothes, or nails. No right thinking man will even associate himself with such a lady, talk not of asking her if she is searching for whom to marry or who to marry her? Use ladies’ deodorant (to take care of you armpit), perfume or body spray of your choice if you can afford it. Look neat, smell good and believe me you are halfway done-it creates first impression.
2- Smile Always: How often do you smile? Smiling is good, it’s attracting, it’s inviting. Actually, smiling is good for your health and prolongs your life. It will not cost you anything to smile. When you don’t smile as a lady, it makes you unapproachable. A young man may want to know you but finds it difficult to talk to you the moment he looks at your face. You can brighten up someone’s face with just a smile. Look, do you know how a lady looks when she smiles, she looks totally innocent; men will attest to this.
3- Be Kindhearted At least To An Extent: Ask yourself this question; are my kindhearted to my neighbors, mates at school, colleagues at workplace and to people in general? As a lady being kind to your fellow humans will also guarantee how quick you will get a suitor. This implies that no man will engage in life lasting relationship with a lady, if he sees her treat others in a way that is not kind or he found out that she derives joy from treating people unkindly. Men generally love ladies that is cool, easy going and soft, to spend quality time with after the hustling and bustling of the day.
4- Let There Be Limit In Your Relationship: I mean in courtship, (ladies) it should not be much of romantic. Emphasis should not be much on sex, because sex is worth waiting for the right time. If a wife serves her husband dinner in the morning, I wonder what she will serve him when the time for dinner eventually comes. Ladies, your body is all you’ve got and so should be guarded with every strength and wisdom you have.
5- Don’t Be Much Religious, Denominational, Sentimental Or Racial: The more of the a fore mentioned you are, as a lady the more the limitations you expose yourself to
How could you as a lady reject a man just because he is not of the same religion,
denomination or race with you? After rejecting your suitors, due to some flimsy
excuses you will still complain, that your Mr. right is not forth coming.If you can't change the situation, change yourself, I mean your mindset. This life is short
to wait too long, think about it.
6- When Mr. Right Is Not Forth Coming, Go For Mr. Potential: There’s nothing
like already made husband, you have a role to play in his life which no lady can
do competitively with you. That Young man is incomplete without you, everything
is not well with him. His problem is that there’s no single (you) in him. Go with him, he has all it takes, the most beautiful city or the strongest economy was
not built in a day. The earlier the better and to delay like the saying goes is dangerous.
7- Never Compare Your Friend's Wedding Ceremony Or Husband with Yours:D0 not compare you suitor with any of your friends husband or expect your wedding to be graced by high dignitaries, when you know that your parents not even any of your relations is a congressman.tell yourself a simple truth, do you want to get married or are you fantasizing what is not obtainable? the time to stop is now. I don't say you should not aim high, but be time conscious.