Relationship without trust is going to crash now or later.There's no circumstance in any given relationship that can make one happy without feeling they could trust their partner.There are ways to ensure that there is this trust in a relationship. Don't always waste your trying to spice things up, instead of building trust in your partner as this will fail it will only take time. The responsibility of moving the relationship to a higher level is on both of you.
Predictability may sound boring, but not if it is predictability in caring, in being there when needed, in taking your responsibility, always being a shoulder to cry on when necessary and so on. Surprises are great when it's something like a surprise day out, a visit to a new restaurant, a thoughtful gift. Your partner needs to feel that whatever happens, you will be there for them.
Don't just pay lip service to being honest, be honest indeed. If there is something bothering you, let it out, don't brood on it and turn a molehill into a mountain. Discuss it with your partner, don't leave them feeling that you are shutting them out, work hard to build trust in your relationship. Don't give rooms for suspense, clear any suspense by asking matured and reasonable questions.
Always give your partner credit and commendations when necessary. If you are not happy with whatever they do, try to approach this sensitively, don't just jump in with both feet and try to be diplomatic instead of just downright critical. Your approach to any action that you deem unacceptable should be with utmost care to avoid misconception.
Don't keep things to yourself. Secrets, especially if they concern your marriage or relationship have a habit of coming into the open and it's much better if you are the one to bring them out. If your partner finds something out that you have been keeping secret it will not build trust in your relationship. It's quite hard work keeping secrets, than making someone happy, put that sort of energy into keeping your partner happy.
It's not a crime to let your partner know what you need from them. Often you have to spell things out, your partner will not necessarily know what you are thinking, no one is a perfect mind reader, even if you think you know each other inside out, you may may as well be wrong. It's all about give and take.
There is no harm in saying no now and whenever it is necessary. Perhaps your partner requests something of you that you cannot agree with. Don't just roll over and give in, this will actually make your partner have respect for you as a person, nobody wants a doormat for a partner.
Always keep looking ahead, relationships do much better if they are not static. Don't get in a rut when you have everything to enjoy, it depends on the choice you made, try to make sure you have things to look forward to. Plan for your future together. Don't let boredom creep in because this is where problems might start. Boredom is a killer to relationships. Both of you are alive express your lives.
When working on ways to build trust in a relationship, sometimes you may encounter problems. People are not angels, everyone has a slightly darker side, and may not always do things that are expected of them. Be prepared to accept some features of your partner that you wish were different. Nobody is perfect so never enter a relationship thinking or hoping that your partner is perfect, you are in for a rocky ride if you think so. Take people for what they are, treasure their good points and try to come to terms with things that are not exactly as you would wish. Don't forget, they are having to do the same with regard to yourself.
"Get your relationship back on track and enjoy your company"